Book of Memories for Joseph Byres "Joe" Caylor Jr.

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Sun, 10 Oct 2021 11:09:21 EDT

My name is Marc Neves and I worked at CSC as did Joe though we were in different consulting groups. He and I traveled together weekly for an extended period of time in the early 2010s to Dayton, OH from Houston, TX. He was working on an SAP project at Wright Patterson AFB and I was working on an Infor project at Premier Health Partners. I live in Austin and would meet up weekly with him while connecting Sundays in the Houston airport and Thursdays on the return at the Dayton airport. We would have an adult beverage and, generally, give each other a hard time about all manner things. We flew these small regional Continental jets and one time we had to "rebalance" the plane which required him moving from the front of the plane to the rear. I always sat in the exit row so i gave him a rash about it as he was passing by and he "tackled" me in my seat! LOL. Another time our flight to Dayton got canceled and we were re-routed to Cleveland only to have our Dayton flght there be overbooked so we rented a car and got to spend several hours of quality highway time driving to Dayton. ;-) There was another time when our Sunday night flight got canceled and I spent the night with him at his house in north Houston. I stayed in the twins room and recall there was a painting of a forest fire on the wall. I'll never forget it as I thought it was so unique and never thought of why someone would paint a fire. Joe was fun. I loved him as friend and always enjoyed our weekly meet ups. I will miss him and his great sense of humor and my condolences go out to all of his family members.

marc

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Condolence From Brad Thompson

Wed, 24 Feb 2021 19:26:37 EST

God Bless the Caylor family. As a fellow CSC’er, Joe never met a coworker or client he didn’t like which was returned in kind. He talked always of his family and we got to them thru Joe although we didn’t personally meet them. Rest In Peace Joe knowing we are all in better hands with you watching over us.

Condolence From Geanea Leighland

Wed, 24 Feb 2021 14:04:08 EST

I worked with Joe for many years on LMP. He was truly the most generous person I have known - generous with his time, and with his knowledge. I remember we actually had to tell him NOT to work so much. He was also caring and protective. I consider myself lucky to have known him. Rest in Peace Joe.

Condolence From Lodewyk Steyn

Fri, 19 Feb 2021 17:59:06 EST

I had the privilege of working with Joe on a project in Roseville, MN. Joe's trust in an individuals ability to achieve a task was most probably one of his biggest gifts - if you ever doubted your ability to achieve, Joe was there to back you up. He saw potential and opportunity where others saw none, he was always calm, collected and focused, regardless of how hectic and crazy things got - never taking his eye of the target. Thank you for your leadership and friendship. Rest in peace.

Condolence From Gene G

Thu, 18 Feb 2021 12:53:10 EST

For all of us that were privileged to know “Josepi”, as I called him,....or one of several he was affectionately known by, it was our great fortune. For you “SAPers”, you can relate and smile..... Many years ago, I was wearing two hats... one as SAP project manager and responsibility for GL and Fixed Assets modules for a project in Louisville, and the combined workload was eating me alive, so I asked my boss if I could hire some help. I checked some resumes (and very few available on the market at the time) and saw Joe’s, but he had no SAP or even accounting experience, but something in the resume and his voice on the phone, told me to take a chance, so I told him to come to Louisville. At the time, we were simply wearing open collar shirts. I went to the airport to meet Joe. Well, coming down the escalator was this big crew cut bear of a man with those saddlebags under his eyes, wearing a three-piece suit. I asked myself what the heck had I gotten myself into, but then came that big Texas grin and bear paw handshake. On the way to the site, he told me that he didn’t know GL or F/A but was willing to learn. I hired him..... He quickly learned the two apps (at work beside me, and at night sitting at supper along with his favorite Scotch). Well, the rest is history... Joe’s impact on all of us was most indescribable and we will all miss his friendship and commaraderie.".........

Condolence From Eddie Baugh

Wed, 17 Feb 2021 16:02:14 EST

I worked with Joe on the CSC Air Force Project in Dayton, Ohio. Joe was one-of-a-kind personality--bigger than life. He was friendly and funny, but a straight shooter. Great guy to talk with. We are all the poorer for his absence from us. My condolences for your loss.

Condolence From Marilyn Durham

Sat, 13 Feb 2021 11:42:00 EST

Lois and Elizabeth and family. I am so sorry to hear about Jody. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. God Bless you all.

Condolence From Melissa Scott

Fri, 12 Feb 2021 19:57:57 EST

My very deepest sympathies and prayers of support and comfort to Joe’s family and friends for your tremendous loss. I’m so very sad at Joe’s passing. He leaves a big void in my daily work day at DXC with his name at the top of my favorites list for go-to contacts. I’ve worked with Joe for many years with us both being long-time CSCers. He was always someone I could rely on for help or to point you in the right direction. To me…he was a bit of a grizzly bear but with a big soft heart. He did his best to train me in a marathon week of all day web meetings learning a new report. It was a firehose of information but he kept calm and patient even when I asked questions over and over and worked with me until I mastered some of the tabs and kept telling me…it’s not ‘that’ bad. And say it with his laugh…a laugh you can’t forget! I enjoyed the times we got to chat a bit about his ‘farm’ and the cows in the field next door. I will miss him very much. May the cherished memories and the legacy Joe leaves with so many people whose lives he touched, bring some comfort and peace to those that mourn his loss. Rest in God’s sweet peace, Joe. I imagine you are enjoying the prettiest farm ever….

Story shared: My Friend Joe

Fri, 12 Feb 2021 16:02:18 EST

My name is Rod Rodriguez and I met Joe in 2008 while working at CSC. At the time Joe was working in NJ at the US Armys Logistics Modernization Project. Once we met, we quickly developed a good working relationship and started collaborating in multiple business initiatives. Joe took the time to coach, mentor, and help me in learning the complex, and sometimes byzantine, ways of doing business in CSC Consulting. Over time this co-worker relationship developed into a very close friendship. Over the next 10 years, we worked very close with each other, and kept in touch socially too. We shared consulting battle scars at places like the IRS, AECON, and in the later DXC Industry Lead team. What I really liked about Joe is that you could count on him to tell you the way things were without trying to sweeten the pill. His straightforwardness was a breath of fresh air. Joe also had an extremely easygoing personality, that made it easy for people to get along with him, and for him to help and assist others. Joe also had an extremely keen sense of humor and could be counted to find the humor in some of the stressful and challenging situations that came up during work sometimes. In summary, I will miss Joe for his sense of humor, helpfulness, truthfulness and overall, for the friendship that we shared the last 12 years. Rest in Peace Joe Caylor, we will see each other again!

Condolence From David Spade

Fri, 12 Feb 2021 15:01:04 EST

I only knew Joe since 2014 but feel those may have been 7 of his best years to know him. Truly he seemed content and comfortable in his life – both at home and at work. It was a pleasure to work with him, but also be his friend. We talked daily – directly or – as is so common now – through group texts and such. Never a dull moment, and even hearing from him on Saturday was comforting. I will hold that in my heart. I vividly remember meeting Joe; it was June 2014 when I was asked to help turn around a project with challenges in Canada, one that Joe was working on (and no, it wasn’t his fault…this time). I landed to find an amazing group of unique personalities, many of which were running around frantically responding to an abusive client making unreasonable demands. Then there was Joe. He was a mountain of a man – in presence both physically and intellectually. I didn’t dare poke the bear immediately as I wasn’t sure what would happen and, frankly, was a bit scared. But I had the gift of time to observe and listen. Over time, it became clear that this was a man of stature; one that not only had the utmost respect of the client but also commanded respect for others based on his endorsement. His commitments were solid; his word was gold. His dedication was unquestionable; he was the first person in every morning and the last to leave (except when the flight schedule to Houston dictated otherwise). He had a stamina I could only aspire to, which was all the more amazing given the copious amount of scotch and nicotine consumption. He also built camaraderie with others outside of work, often holding court in the bar that served as our evening office over the next 3 years. He outlasted everyone and eventually was the manager to close out the project successfully. Admirable. While we continued to work together to this day, the days on that project in Canada were the most memorable and I miss them. Regardless, he continued to make an impression on others with his expertise, tenacity and good nature. I have received countless expressions of gratitude and loss from clients, co-workers and suppliers alike. Most notable? Every single time, Joe’s participation was welcome and sought out – both for his skills as well as his personality. But work was only part of the relationship that built into a friendship. There are many different times that were memorable, but the one that really stuck with me was a time where we were working a proposal in Dallas and took a break to go to lunch. He offered to drive over as I had taken a taxi to the office. He pulled up in – what I think was – a Ford F850 or something like that; one doesn’t sit down into Joe’s car – you climb up. He had driven from Houston, mentioning that it was quicker than flying since speed limits are only a suggestion in Texas. As we drove, his CD started playing, and I noticed right away that it was different – it definitely was country or western, not sure which. The musicians themselves were quite talented and I remarked that this wasn’t the slick country you hear all over. He told me it was Hank Williams Sr and that was the only real country music – not all that pop “stuff” today (and he didn’t say “stuff”). We continued to listen and just appreciate the musicianship; it was great to know we had some common viewpoints outside of work. For, as a lot of people know, we didn’t necessarily share the same political views. He was a staunch believer in Whataburger, and I’m an In-n-Out guy. But over time, we talked a lot, and openly about such things. What was remarkable was that – despite our choice in restaurants – he would have earnest heartfelt conversation about our beliefs and – through that debate – would often find that they were related to the same core values including self-reliance and service to the country – something of a common bond with our children. Through Joe, I have hope that we all can be civilized and make the future better; though I don’t think he’d ever admit that the Double-Double is a better burger. Finally, it may seem a bit cliché to say that there is some regret for things that weren’t done and that it is a reminder to seize the day. But this is true here as well. We had often talked about having a gathering at Joe’s “country estate”. Believe me, the idea of this city boy going out and dodging copperheads and all the other demon spawn there was daunting. But the draw was alluring. You could tell when Joe was there versus the city. He was relaxed, even happier, and his laugh had a deeper tone that belied his contentment. He reinforced this with the pictures he shared of his animals and others that enjoyed the property. It was his joy. Joe; I will miss your laugh, your candor, your talent and the loving way you kept telling me to “bless my heart”. But clearly it is time for your back – which provided for many – to rest. It is time for your broad shoulders – which lifted countless people up so they could rise higher – to relax. And it is time for your soul – which was so kind and gentle – to rejoice. So smile and breathe in the fresh air and sunshine of eternal glory. Well done, good and faithful servant.

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Condolence From Paul Solomon

Fri, 12 Feb 2021 08:47:01 EST

Joe was a long time friend. We shared travels and the success of many different projects together. Over the many years he got to be close friend to myself and my family. He was always there and will always be remembered with a smile. Wishing you peace Buddy

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Condolence From Michael Arcuri

Fri, 12 Feb 2021 00:06:32 EST

Joe was a dear person, we spent many years together on LMP. He was a special person and he will be missed. I am so sorry for your loss.

Condolence From Stacy Martinez

Thu, 11 Feb 2021 16:54:12 EST

Jody I will miss you My Buddy May you Rest In Peace You made the world a better place and I am honored to call you my friend Stacy

Condolence From Sean E

Thu, 11 Feb 2021 16:20:08 EST

My deepest condolences go out to Joe’s family. I had the pleasure of working with Joe in Toronto and he was one of the best team mates I’ve ever had.

Condolence From Sean E

Thu, 11 Feb 2021 16:19:18 EST

My deepest condolences go out to Joe’s family. I had the pleasure of working with Joe in Toronto and he was one of the best team mates I’ve ever had.

Condolence From Tom Thompson

Thu, 11 Feb 2021 16:03:30 EST

I've known Joe for almost a decade, and in all that time he was always there for me when I needed something, whether it was to track down something for work or to just unwind with for a few minutes after a tough day. He always had a unique perspective on things! He will be sorely missed. My thoughts and prayers are with Joe's family.

Condolence From Murugan Ramadoss

Thu, 11 Feb 2021 13:22:59 EST

I know Joe from working together for a project with DXC. He was a wonderful and supportive friend. I will cherish the memories and pray for Joe to rest in peace. My heartfelt condolences to his family.

Story shared: Being Joe's friend

Thu, 11 Feb 2021 13:09:58 EST

Joe was not only my colleague but my friend. I met Joe when I joined the Canadian project. He welcomed me to the project, invited me to dinner with the team and made me feel part of the team. Joe was the type of person who people respected. He was always polite in his East Texas ways, calling people sir and ma'am. But under that politeness was someone who had no issues telling you what he really thought and when you were wrong, he had a funny way of pointing it to you. The words might have taken a while to sink in, but you just remember his words and laughed afterward.

He was greatly respected by clients and peers as a person who been there done that. Because of his skills, clients would trust Joe and realized they needed him. We were in Edmonton, Alberta going live with the Canadian western group. Joe walked into the work room one morning and noticed there was no coffee. For those who know Joe – he didn’t work without his coffee in the morning. Joe looked around and told the 50 people in the room to stop working since if there is no coffee there is no work. Within 30 minutes someone ran to Tim Horton’s and got boxes of coffee, including one just for Joe. He took care of everyone.

The most memorable Joe moment was during the last round of go lives for the Canadian project. We were in Toronto, having the daily meeting with the client. one of the resources from the client in charge of go live was presenting his plan. Joe after listening to this for 10 minutes , spoke up and told him his plan was pure fantasy. He complained he worked hard and an argument ensued. Being we were in Canada, the client VP tried to calm the situation and have his resource and Joe to apologize to each other. I will never forget Joe looking at him and telling him, quote “ I am deeply sorry, you’re a dumbass and for that I apologize”. Needless to say that was not the answer the VP was looking for but realized that Joe wasn’t going to give up and left it at that.

I will miss my conversations with Joe, his wisdom, humor, and views of the world. Joe may you rest in peace in a better place knowing you touched many lives. You are unforgettable and thank you for being my friend.

My best condolenses. - Thomas Imirowicz

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Condolence From Joseph Hershman

Thu, 11 Feb 2021 10:55:36 EST

I only knew Joe from working with him in Marlton, NJ. But I came to expect that an otherwise mundane and ordinary review meeting with him would be both entertaining and informative. I had a great respect for what he literally brought to the table during those meetings. Condolences to the family, and may memories of Joe always bring you a smile.

Condolence From Dinesh Chhabra

Thu, 11 Feb 2021 09:16:34 EST

Joe was a wonderful friend and colleague. We had worked together for over 20 years and got to spend so much time with him out side of work. Truly a loving personality. He will be in our memories for ever. Our thoughts and prayers with you.

Condolence From Elizabeth

Wed, 10 Feb 2021 21:53:56 EST

My brother. My hero. My protector. Thank you for all the memories and love. My heart is broken and will never be the same again. I hope your doing all the things you love with Dad. Til we meet again. ♥️♥️

Condolence From Tom Hare

Wed, 10 Feb 2021 20:58:19 EST

I am grateful to have worked with Joe while we were both at CSC/DXC and at the same time very sad to hear this news. Rest in Peace Joe!

Condolence From Sherrill and Bryan

Wed, 10 Feb 2021 20:21:20 EST

Rest in peace my friend. You are now wrapped in the warmth of the Lord.

Condolence From Ron Crossley

Wed, 10 Feb 2021 17:06:19 EST

Joe was a friend and co-worker. I am saddened by his passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. Joe was a great guy... super smart... and he helped me whenever I asked (which was quite often)... I'm gonna miss you buddy! I will smile every time I think of you (nothing but good memories my friend).

Condolence From Rosemary Whalen (Roe)

Wed, 10 Feb 2021 16:34:06 EST

Caylor family you are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. I would like you to know how lucky I was to have met and worked with Joe at CSC/DXC. He joined a project in VA and gave me the opportunity to meet him. His knowledge, presence, and character is what I remember most. My most fond memory was trying to convince Joe to just call me Roe. Of course his southern charm kept him saying sure 'Roe,.... MAM'! God Bless.

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